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Update on the State of Marriage in the Church of the Nazarene
In a 2005 ANSR Poll (Association of Nazarene Sociologists and Researchers) random survey of active, adult members of the Church of the Nazarene, more than half (56%) agreed with the statement: “Christians are just as likely to divorce as are non-Christians.” A second ANSR poll in 2009 revealed even more (63%) Nazarenes believed Christianity makes little or no difference in the longevity of a marriage.

So…what is happening to attitudes about marriage in the Church of the Nazarene? Is it true active, committed Christians are as likely to divorce as non-Christians? What is the Church of the Nazarene doing to help marriages and couples grow as partners in discipleship and in life?  

The Church of the Nazarene believes marriage is foundational to the family. Repeated studies reveal the importance of an intact marriage to the raising of children, the stability of society, quality of life, discipleship, and spiritual growth. We are wise to remember research repeatedly shows parents have the greatest influence upon children and teens. Every comprehensive ministry plan must include ministry to them.

As mentioned in the September issue of the SDMI Connections, results of the Lay Members Survey are available at the AMC web site. Many of the results will surprise you. Also, some excellent resources to help churches and couples strengthen marriages and families are available through the following links. 
If you have questions about the survey or the resources, please contact me at lmorris.nazarene.org.

Blessings in Christ,

Larry R. Morris
Adult Ministries International Director
Sunday School and Discipleship Ministries International
Church of the Nazarene Global Ministry Center
 
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